RLT Relationship Skills Training

Results Over Talk Therapy - RLT Relationship Skills

A direct, no-blame approach that gets to the heart of the issue fast.

Sessions are online via secure Zoom from my office in Red Deer, serving couples across Alberta.

If you’ve tried traditional therapy and felt like you just "talked in circles," you might be a therapy refugee. You don’t need more empathy, you need accountability, clarity, and practical skills you can actually use when the session ends.

You’re tired of the same old "talk therapy" that doesn't change anything.

You may be:

• Frustrated by therapists who just "nod and listen"
• Stuck in the same power struggles despite months of sessions
• Looking for a specialist who will tell you the truth
• Ready to take radical accountability for your part in the dynamic
• Wanting a roadmap, not just a place to vent

No matter how long you’ve been stuck, RLT offers a direct path to relational mastery.

What We Work On

We move past the "story" of your relationship and get into the relational skills required to maintain a healthy connection. We focus on the "how" of your interactions, not just the "what."

You’ll learn how to:

• Make "invisible labor" visible without starting a fight
• Communicate needs with clarity instead of resentment
• Realign household and relationship roles for sustainable balance
• Rediscover appreciation and genuine connection
• Stop the reactive cycle of burnout and shutdown

What Makes This Work Different? 

This isn’t just about making a chore chart. This is practical, honest work using Relational Life Therapy (RLT). We look at the power dynamics and the "relational stances" that keep you stuck.

You’ll learn how to:

• Identify your "Relational Stance" (and how to shift it)
• Speak the truth with love and respect
• Listen without getting defensive
• Use "The Feedback Wheel" to repair conflict in minutes
• Give and receive appreciation that actually lands

What Makes RLT Different?

Relational Life Therapy (RLT) is a direct, no-blame approach. Unlike traditional models, I won’t just sit back and watch you argue. I will actively intervene, provide honest feedback, and teach you the specific tools required for a successful partnership.

It is built on:

• Accountability: No one gets a pass. We look at how both partners contribute to the loop.
• Directness: We cut through the noise and get to the heart of the issue fast.
• Practicality: You leave every session with a skill, not just a feeling.

What You Can Expect

✔️ Online sessions, day, evening, and weekends
✔️ A certified RLT specialist who takes an active role
✔️ Practical tools (like the Feedback Wheel) for immediate use
✔️ Honest, "no-fluff" feedback on your relational patterns
✔️ A focus on long-term mastery, not just short-term fixes

You’ll leave each session with clarity and specific tools. And you’ll know exactly what to work on between sessions. Many couples experience real change in just 4 to 6 sessions (8 to 12 hours), especially when they commit to the work outside of our time together.

Who This Is For

This is for individuals and couples who are ready for a higher level of work.

• "Therapy refugees" who want real results
• Partners navigating power struggles, distance, or shutdown
• Couples who want to build a "Relationally Wise" household
• Anyone ready to stop the blame and start the repair

We meet online in the privacy of your home, but the work goes deep into the real dynamics of your daily life.

What does this cost? From $200 per hour.